Be aware of the physical signs of abuse and neglect: maltreatment, behavioral changes, and changes in relationships with peers. Sometimes it is difficult to determine what is different or out of place. Just remember to use your gut — if it doesn’t seem right, it usually isn’t.

Listen to what children are saying. They may speak directly to you or they may tell a friend that there is something wrong in their lives.  They may also speak through play, their drawings, or reactions to books they have read to them.

Children don’t usually lie about abuse, that is why it is so important to listen.

Your observations of the child and/or the home environment may lead you to suspect child abuse or neglect. You are mandated reporters! Follow the protocol and make the call. Remember that by reporting you are taking the first step in rebuilding a family and ending a child’s suffering.

There is a great need to teach all children the dynamics of child abuse and neglect. Ensuring their safety is a major concern. However, children are being bombarded with much information; be sure that youngsters understand what this information means. Some children may be unnecessarily alarmed and others may be fearful to disclose abuse or neglect.